I do not understand why this happen. A guy is in a relationship but still cheats on her and promises the side chick he would be with her forever. This life is something else. I lost a friend few weeks back. I would blame her because life continues. Before she died, she narrated her whole story to me.
"Kanyin, i do not know if i can ever fall in love anymore, i met this guy 7 years ago and we started liking each other. Things got so deep i wasn't looking at other guys.I became so into him that even when he did wrong things, i would be the one apologizing. Some of my friends warned about being a fool in love. The relationship grew. According to him, he is businessman, he travels every month, his parents stay abroad.
As a lady, i kept asking him about marriage, i am ready to get married. At 25, am old enough naa, he was always posting me, busy today, busy tomorrow. I was patient, men came i refused. I was too committed that if i didnt speak to him in a day, i might fall sick. 5 years went, he didn't propose. I was getting worried, i wanted to be called "Mrs ojo". I did not want to talk to him about it, i knew when the time comes, he would propose since he promised to be with me. We kept on going
A particular time came when he traveled for 2 weeks , i really missed him. I wanted to go with him, i was too used to him. When he came home, i even got to the airport 2 hours earlier than he arrived. Immediately i saw him, i ran to him and gave him a welcome kiss. I was sooooo excited.When we got home, we ate, he had his shower, we made love.
I have had an abortion for him because he did not have a job then and we could feed the baby so i had to. I have stolen from my dad's money just to make sure he gets a good job.
One faithful Sunday, I was too weak to go to church so he left me and went. When i decided to get up from the bed, i went to get my laptop because in had some mails i needed to send that morning, so when i opened the locker, i saw some invitation cards "TUNDE WEDS BOLANLE". venue was in queens street, England. Date was the same day he told me he had a board meeting in England. "could this be true?..is it my Tunde?...Buh then i saw some more. some pictures... *crying* his parents... TUNDE was on the altar with a pregnant girl, kissing and laughing. TUNDE was actually getting married to this lady...tears were just rolling from my eyes, i did not know where to start fro.
When he came back, i was on the floor, i arranged the pictures on the floor. When he saw them, he did not know what to say. i said "Tunde did u actually think u could hide such thing from me?... 7 years Tunde, 7.....Breaking up would have been better Tunde, Tunde i never cheated on you,,,7 years Tunde you were the only one touching me, Where do i start from TUNDE!!!......he replied "i did not know how to tell u, i was scared i was going to hurt you and my parents wanted me to marry lucy, i mean i couldn't disobey...while he was talking i was just thinking " so his parents told him 2 years ago and he could not tell them there was someone else, if he really loved me he won't do such. Heaven knows i love him.
My few words to him "Tunde i do not deserve this at all the time i spent with you was a waste, i made you who you are *sniffs* i wish you all the best Tunde!!!"...I packed my stuffs earlier so i just carried them, dropped his ring and walked out"...Kanyin i am very weak right now, *sighs* things are just complicated with the men in the country.GOODBYE Kanyin
I never knew that was the "GOODBYE" of life. i still do not understand why she committed suicide but Mr Tunde no try sha..i won't curse him. God might have destined the lucy girl to him...who knows
please ehn! GUYS do not say because you do not wanna hurt a girl you should lie to her, come out straight. If she doesnt get hurt now, she would eventually and the curse would be on you. Please lets change.
RIP JOY!!!
Sunday, 16 December 2012
BLAZE CLOTHIERS
model :melodia @berry_melodia
|photography: sapphire photography
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a multi-coloured "blaze" shirt |
Ilo 'blaze" Rotimi, CEO blaze clotheirs is a final year student of Redeemers university. He has won so many awards and also worked with some other designers.The young designer is aiming for the best. These are some of his work.
Tuesday, 11 December 2012
ALICE COUTURES
the LOGO |
hand bangles |
hand bangles |
ankara bags(small,medium and big) |
purse (silver chain attached) |
For more info, follow @heri_tee on twitter
TOP 5 NAIJA SONGS
1.Alingo-psquare
2.Burna boy-like to party
3.iceprince-Aboki
4.olamide-first of all
5.Tuface-ihe neme
2.Burna boy-like to party
3.iceprince-Aboki
4.olamide-first of all
5.Tuface-ihe neme
LYRICS: DIAMONDS-RIHANNA
SHINE BRIGHT LIKE A DIAMOND
SHINE BRIGHT LIKE A DIAMOND
FIND LIGHT IN THE BEAUTIFUL SEA
I CHOOSE TO BE HAPPY
YOU AND I, YOU AND I
WE'RE LIKE DIAMONDS IN THE SKY
YOU'RE A SHOOTING STAR I SEE
A VISION OF ECSTASY
WHEN YOU HOLD ME,I'M ALIVE
WE'RE LIKE DIAMONDS IN THE SKY
I KNEW THAT WE'D BECOME ONE RIGHT AWAY
OH RIGHT AWAY
AT FIRST SIGHT I LEFT THE ENERGY OF SUN RAYS
I SAW THE LIFE INSIDE YOUR EYES
SO SHINE BRIGHT,TONIGHT YOU AND I
WE'RE BEAUTIFUL LIKE DIAMONDS IN THE SKY
EYE TO EYE,SO ALIVE
WE'RE BEAUTIFUL LIKE DIAMONDS IN THE SKY
SHINE BRIGHT LIKE A DIAMOND
SHINE BRIGHT LIKE A DIAMOND
SHINE BRIGHT LIKE A DIAMOND
WE'RE BEAUTIFUL LIKE DIAMONDS IN THE SKY
PALMS RISE TO THE UNIVERSE
AS WE MOONSHINE AND MOLLY
FEEL AND WARMTH, WE'LL NEVER DIE
WE'RE LIKE DIAMONDS IN THE SKY
SHINE BRIGHT LIKE A DIAMOND
FIND LIGHT IN THE BEAUTIFUL SEA
I CHOOSE TO BE HAPPY
YOU AND I, YOU AND I
WE'RE LIKE DIAMONDS IN THE SKY
YOU'RE A SHOOTING STAR I SEE
A VISION OF ECSTASY
WHEN YOU HOLD ME,I'M ALIVE
WE'RE LIKE DIAMONDS IN THE SKY
I KNEW THAT WE'D BECOME ONE RIGHT AWAY
OH RIGHT AWAY
AT FIRST SIGHT I LEFT THE ENERGY OF SUN RAYS
I SAW THE LIFE INSIDE YOUR EYES
SO SHINE BRIGHT,TONIGHT YOU AND I
WE'RE BEAUTIFUL LIKE DIAMONDS IN THE SKY
EYE TO EYE,SO ALIVE
WE'RE BEAUTIFUL LIKE DIAMONDS IN THE SKY
SHINE BRIGHT LIKE A DIAMOND
SHINE BRIGHT LIKE A DIAMOND
SHINE BRIGHT LIKE A DIAMOND
WE'RE BEAUTIFUL LIKE DIAMONDS IN THE SKY
PALMS RISE TO THE UNIVERSE
AS WE MOONSHINE AND MOLLY
FEEL AND WARMTH, WE'LL NEVER DIE
WE'RE LIKE DIAMONDS IN THE SKY
NEWS: OBASANJO FROSTY RELATIONSHIP WITH PRESIDENT GOODLUCK
This frosty relationship between president Jonathan and Obasanjo may have worsened as the latter has refused to openly sympathise with the former over the death of this younger brother, Meni Jonathan.
Obasanjo is currently in Ghana, where he is monitoring the ongoing presidential election in the West African country. The former president who was until April the chairman of the board of Trustees of the peoples Democratic party, boycotted the last meeting of the board, which was held at the presidential villa, Abuja.
These differences on serious political and interpersonal relationship between both ,men have made any process aimed at attaining a true difficult and deepened their enmity. BUH REALLY,HOW E TAKE CONCERN ME???
Obasanjo is currently in Ghana, where he is monitoring the ongoing presidential election in the West African country. The former president who was until April the chairman of the board of Trustees of the peoples Democratic party, boycotted the last meeting of the board, which was held at the presidential villa, Abuja.
These differences on serious political and interpersonal relationship between both ,men have made any process aimed at attaining a true difficult and deepened their enmity. BUH REALLY,HOW E TAKE CONCERN ME???
Wednesday, 20 June 2012
BLACK SUNDAY
Today without doubt will go in history as one of the many sad days we have had in this country, or what can we say?
I woke from bed this Sunday morning, relatively weak, probably thinking I was starting on a very wrong note, or I was having my own bad side of the day very early. I was not going to be at work, and was not planning to attend the graduation I was invited for either. I only wanted to go to church, play my role in the multimedia section and get back home. Nothing more. I had articles to write and a certification exam to prepare for. Unlike many other days, I had my today really planned, really programmed—then the sad news broke. A plane carrying one hundred and fifty three persons crashed into a residential area, all feared dead.
As I sat in that couch, watching CNN break the news to local observers I began wondering where exactly we as a nation is heading to. Shortly before that, the president of the country had touched down on Lagos soil for a military ceremony, shortly before that, the Lagos State governor had absented himself from a meeting South West governors had with the president at Aso Rock, shortly before that, students of the University of Lagos Akoka took to the streets protesting the change of name of their university to Moshood Abiola University of Lagos. In the space of two weeks.
This country has in recent and very recent times had a consistent track record of ups and downs, the government never really cared—and still don’t. We have a president that has a PhD in nothing but deceitful smiles, and now we are mourning the deaths of many that should by now be united with their loved ones and family.
What happened now is the most defining of how ineffective, or how failed the government of our country is. It is very much okay on the grounds of emotions and sympathy to believe that what happened in Nigeria can happen in any other nation of the world, developed, under developed or developing. I will not debate. But I stand to be corrected on the note that nothing happens by accident—even accident don’t happen by accident.
This country’s aviation sector has always been a major concern—even after all the accreditation by the International Community and the acceptance of the Nigerian airspace into the league of big boys.
The government gave us the impression that a lot of work was on it, may be some work was really done—may be not—but the point is that something went wrong with monitoring the progress of the supposed transformation of the Nigerian aviation sector. I refuse to believe that this happened by accident. I refuse to believe that the plane went down just because it wanted to, that even in perfect condition, it just dropped.
Very recently the United States department of defense published that most of the components on many of her aircraft are counterfeit from China. They said this heavily hindered the performance of American troops in most dangerous terrains and put American lives at risk.
What have we as a nation done about this? Have we done a follow up investigation to see that we as a nation is not suffering from this huge monster situation? Or do we know about it but just hope we don’t suffer from the consequence of our actions? Have we carried out concrete investigations to ascertain the authenticity of the many large or tiny components that power our aircraft (military or civilian)? Have we investigated their worthiness?
How old are these air-crafts? Do these air-crafts come into the country as brand new? How many airline companies can boast of brand new air-crafts? Are we sure these air-crafts don’t come in as old, or second hand, find their way through registration and certification tests and begin flying local journeys in Nigeria? I think it in itself is criminal. I think we need to properly divide this issue, and keep digging until we get to its deepest understanding.
When we take this aircraft companies for investigation, are they given the score they deserve or the score they bought? Are they certified to take off and land on our run ways on the grounds of merit, or on the grounds that the craft can be permitted, that it is still okay, or good enough, or should still be able to run two or three trips even in its deplorable state?
How do you explain to a waiting mother or her crying child that her husband or father is gone? How do you explain to a family that their journalist brother will not return to be joined with them?
There are gatherings of strong women and brave men, and none of them can tell an aged mother or aged father that their child will not return. Did you see the pictures of the weeping, did you see clips of widows plunged into tears, how can she explain to family and extended relatives, mostly in-laws who already call her witch that she isn’t responsible for the death of her husband?
Do we know the psychological implications of this single event? Do we know how much consequence it will have on our national productivity index in the nearest future? Don’t forget that life expectancy in Nigeria is dropping drastically, thanks to bad leadership.
The wickedness in high places has resurfaced, the negligence of a certain few is being paid for by the lives of the innocent and the least of these.
I personally think a lot of questions still need to be asked. I think a lot of investigations still needs to be done, else this wickedness will go on, so many young souls will die, and the government will come out with a short speech empathizing with the lost and the family of the lost, the president will cry, a Nigerian will post his picture on Facebook, tag his friends, and write as short comment, "the president wept", and again, the flag will be placed at half mast.
Don't miss my next article, titled Who has the power
11:59pm Nigerian time.
I woke from bed this Sunday morning, relatively weak, probably thinking I was starting on a very wrong note, or I was having my own bad side of the day very early. I was not going to be at work, and was not planning to attend the graduation I was invited for either. I only wanted to go to church, play my role in the multimedia section and get back home. Nothing more. I had articles to write and a certification exam to prepare for. Unlike many other days, I had my today really planned, really programmed—then the sad news broke. A plane carrying one hundred and fifty three persons crashed into a residential area, all feared dead.
As I sat in that couch, watching CNN break the news to local observers I began wondering where exactly we as a nation is heading to. Shortly before that, the president of the country had touched down on Lagos soil for a military ceremony, shortly before that, the Lagos State governor had absented himself from a meeting South West governors had with the president at Aso Rock, shortly before that, students of the University of Lagos Akoka took to the streets protesting the change of name of their university to Moshood Abiola University of Lagos. In the space of two weeks.
This country has in recent and very recent times had a consistent track record of ups and downs, the government never really cared—and still don’t. We have a president that has a PhD in nothing but deceitful smiles, and now we are mourning the deaths of many that should by now be united with their loved ones and family.
What happened now is the most defining of how ineffective, or how failed the government of our country is. It is very much okay on the grounds of emotions and sympathy to believe that what happened in Nigeria can happen in any other nation of the world, developed, under developed or developing. I will not debate. But I stand to be corrected on the note that nothing happens by accident—even accident don’t happen by accident.
This country’s aviation sector has always been a major concern—even after all the accreditation by the International Community and the acceptance of the Nigerian airspace into the league of big boys.
The government gave us the impression that a lot of work was on it, may be some work was really done—may be not—but the point is that something went wrong with monitoring the progress of the supposed transformation of the Nigerian aviation sector. I refuse to believe that this happened by accident. I refuse to believe that the plane went down just because it wanted to, that even in perfect condition, it just dropped.
Very recently the United States department of defense published that most of the components on many of her aircraft are counterfeit from China. They said this heavily hindered the performance of American troops in most dangerous terrains and put American lives at risk.
What have we as a nation done about this? Have we done a follow up investigation to see that we as a nation is not suffering from this huge monster situation? Or do we know about it but just hope we don’t suffer from the consequence of our actions? Have we carried out concrete investigations to ascertain the authenticity of the many large or tiny components that power our aircraft (military or civilian)? Have we investigated their worthiness?
How old are these air-crafts? Do these air-crafts come into the country as brand new? How many airline companies can boast of brand new air-crafts? Are we sure these air-crafts don’t come in as old, or second hand, find their way through registration and certification tests and begin flying local journeys in Nigeria? I think it in itself is criminal. I think we need to properly divide this issue, and keep digging until we get to its deepest understanding.
When we take this aircraft companies for investigation, are they given the score they deserve or the score they bought? Are they certified to take off and land on our run ways on the grounds of merit, or on the grounds that the craft can be permitted, that it is still okay, or good enough, or should still be able to run two or three trips even in its deplorable state?
How do you explain to a waiting mother or her crying child that her husband or father is gone? How do you explain to a family that their journalist brother will not return to be joined with them?
There are gatherings of strong women and brave men, and none of them can tell an aged mother or aged father that their child will not return. Did you see the pictures of the weeping, did you see clips of widows plunged into tears, how can she explain to family and extended relatives, mostly in-laws who already call her witch that she isn’t responsible for the death of her husband?
Do we know the psychological implications of this single event? Do we know how much consequence it will have on our national productivity index in the nearest future? Don’t forget that life expectancy in Nigeria is dropping drastically, thanks to bad leadership.
The wickedness in high places has resurfaced, the negligence of a certain few is being paid for by the lives of the innocent and the least of these.
I personally think a lot of questions still need to be asked. I think a lot of investigations still needs to be done, else this wickedness will go on, so many young souls will die, and the government will come out with a short speech empathizing with the lost and the family of the lost, the president will cry, a Nigerian will post his picture on Facebook, tag his friends, and write as short comment, "the president wept", and again, the flag will be placed at half mast.
Don't miss my next article, titled Who has the power
11:59pm Nigerian time.
BLANK
Today without doubt will go in history as one of the many sad days we have had in this country, or what can we say?
I woke from bed this Sunday morning, relatively weak, probably thinking I was starting on a very wrong note, or I was having my own bad side of the day very early. I was not going to be at work, and was not planning to attend the graduation I was invited for either. I only wanted to go to church, play my role in the multimedia section and get back home. Nothing more. I had articles to write and a certification exam to prepare for. Unlike many other days, I had my today really planned, really programmed—then the sad news broke. A plane carrying one hundred and fifty three persons crashed into a residential area, all feared dead.
As I sat in that couch, watching CNN break the news to local observers I began wondering where exactly we as a nation is heading to. Shortly before that, the president of the country had touched down on Lagos soil for a military ceremony, shortly before that, the Lagos State governor had absented himself from a meeting South West governors had with the president at Aso Rock, shortly before that, students of the University of Lagos Akoka took to the streets protesting the change of name of their university to Moshood Abiola University of Lagos. In the space of two weeks.
This country has in recent and very recent times had a consistent track record of ups and downs, the government never really cared—and still don’t. We have a president that has a PhD in nothing but deceitful smiles, and now we are mourning the deaths of many that should by now be united with their loved ones and family.
What happened now is the most defining of how ineffective, or how failed the government of our country is. It is very much okay on the grounds of emotions and sympathy to believe that what happened in Nigeria can happen in any other nation of the world, developed, under developed or developing. I will not debate. But I stand to be corrected on the note that nothing happens by accident—even accident don’t happen by accident.
This country’s aviation sector has always been a major concern—even after all the accreditation by the International Community and the acceptance of the Nigerian airspace into the league of big boys.
The government gave us the impression that a lot of work was on it, may be some work was really done—may be not—but the point is that something went wrong with monitoring the progress of the supposed transformation of the Nigerian aviation sector. I refuse to believe that this happened by accident. I refuse to believe that the plane went down just because it wanted to, that even in perfect condition, it just dropped.
Very recently the United States department of defense published that most of the components on many of her aircraft are counterfeit from China. They said this heavily hindered the performance of American troops in most dangerous terrains and put American lives at risk.
What have we as a nation done about this? Have we done a follow up investigation to see that we as a nation is not suffering from this huge monster situation? Or do we know about it but just hope we don’t suffer from the consequence of our actions? Have we carried out concrete investigations to ascertain the authenticity of the many large or tiny components that power our aircraft (military or civilian)? Have we investigated their worthiness?
How old are these air-crafts? Do these air-crafts come into the country as brand new? How many airline companies can boast of brand new air-crafts? Are we sure these air-crafts don’t come in as old, or second hand, find their way through registration and certification tests and begin flying local journeys in Nigeria? I think it in itself is criminal. I think we need to properly divide this issue, and keep digging until we get to its deepest understanding.
When we take this aircraft companies for investigation, are they given the score they deserve or the score they bought? Are they certified to take off and land on our run ways on the grounds of merit, or on the grounds that the craft can be permitted, that it is still okay, or good enough, or should still be able to run two or three trips even in its deplorable state?
How do you explain to a waiting mother or her crying child that her husband or father is gone? How do you explain to a family that their journalist brother will not return to be joined with them?
There are gatherings of strong women and brave men, and none of them can tell an aged mother or aged father that their child will not return. Did you see the pictures of the weeping, did you see clips of widows plunged into tears, how can she explain to family and extended relatives, mostly in-laws who already call her witch that she isn’t responsible for the death of her husband?
Do we know the psychological implications of this single event? Do we know how much consequence it will have on our national productivity index in the nearest future? Don’t forget that life expectancy in Nigeria is dropping drastically, thanks to bad leadership.
The wickedness in high places has resurfaced, the negligence of a certain few is being paid for by the lives of the innocent and the least of these.
I personally think a lot of questions still need to be asked. I think a lot of investigations still needs to be done, else this wickedness will go on, so many young souls will die, and the government will come out with a short speech empathizing with the lost and the family of the lost, the president will cry, a Nigerian will post his picture on Facebook, tag his friends, and write as short comment, “the president wept”, and again, the flag will be placed at half mast.
Don't miss my next article, titled Who has the power
11:59pm Nigerian time.
Sunday, 20 May 2012
Lonely
Hmmm sometimes I used to feel like the only girl in the world.
Sometimes you don't need friends
Just wake up
Pray
Maybe chill on your bed and listen to music for like an hour
Get up
Brush your smelly teeth
Breakfast
Watch movies for like 3 hours
Time to take a nap
Wake up after 2 hours
Lunch
Remember I have not had my bath
After lunch,I
Listen to music,dance and sing
If there's no light,make up and snap stupid pictures
Nepa bring light,play games
*yawns*
Watch Jerry sponger's show
Watch American idol
Ok it's getting late
Turn on the heater
Time to bath
While bathing,train your voice by singing stupid songs
Done
Bra an pant on
Ok,its late
Pyjamas on
Dinner
Back to my bed
*yawns*
time to sleep
Life is too short to keep friends and start arguing
Start having unneccessary headache
Live your life smooth and steady
Over and over
That crazy feeling you have when someone you really love tells you he/she has nothing to do with you.you will cry and different things will come to your mind like committing suicide or jumping inside lagoon.hehehe it's funny.for instance,you have been in a relationship for close to 11 years and on your birthday,your boyfriend decides to break up with you.what comes to your mind "11 years" that is the only thing "how long"....ever thought of the argument you had and you both didn't talk to each other for a whole year.8 years years together for misunderstandings so many things that would have happened....tell me how that kinda relationship can be everlasting.the only problem is that people around you would ask questions and all.you don't have to be sad when relationships are broken.just think about your gain and loss..and pray for a better one..life is too short ooo
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